Our fellowship and communion with God was never meant to be based upon Him listening to rants and requests while setting aside a few special minutes to periodically to do all the talking. During the past century or so, religious tradition has placed the focus on us talking to God and expecting to hear from God through the pages of the Bible. Certainly that can be a component, but to suggest God only speaks to us through the writings contained in the publication we call the Bible is to miss and dismiss the Spirit of God within our hearts. There are no limits on how God will choose to communicate with us, supernaturally or otherwise.
Unfortunately, many of us have been unintentionally trained not to expect or to look for God to speak to us outside the avenue of chapters and verses. Hearing from God is not a 10-step plan as taught by another human. Not even the Apostle Paul etched that one for us to apply. Perhaps Step #1 is simply becoming aware of how He desires to interact with us—in any given moment. Step #2 (the next and final step) will be up to you and the Holy Spirit who lives within ... as He caters His guidance in a way that is unique to you.
When one is confined to concepts which has them in a state of constantly working at trying to improve their position with God, it can end up being stressful and exhausting.
To help create a visual, we use an example of someone who was working through their sweat to get to the top of an escalator that was going down in the opposite direction. People were all around, cheering her on to keep going. She nearly made it to the top before failing to reach the goal. And the spectators were not very gracious afterwards ... just like a real, legalistic church setting.
Jesus spoke to would-be 'doers' about a rest we could all learn from Him. It's easy and light. The opposite of what many of us have had to deal with.
A couple of links to the escalator video referenced in this episode: Facebook Reel (1:30) YouTube Short (0:20)
The Mosaic law the Jewish people were under for centuries contained a long and burdensome list of over 600 things they were supposed to do and obey. That's what the law was ... a ministry of hearing and doing. They considered it a law to bring them righteousness and liberty. They thought it was a word that could save their souls and bring them blessings through their doing. After the ascension, many Jewish believers in Jesus continued to cling to that law ... unaware it was something Jesus brought to an end. In other words, they added Jesus to their law-keeping. Some may have mistakenly thought this would provide them the grace and ability to finally become doers of the law.
Today we have much of the corporate church world turning it inside out by first believing in Jesus and then adding religious law to that belief—although usually a version designed to be much less burdensome. It's cheap law—where law and grace get mixed as do faith and works ... incompatible components that do not mesh within a new and better covenant. No matter what kind of a list you want to create to follow and do in order to achieve perfection and right standing with God, it will never be enough ... just ask the Jews from the previous covenant. This is actually good news for us. It's why we have a Savior.
The most effective Guide towards experiencing true liberty isn't from a written code of conduct or any kind of law ... or even 'good Bible teaching.' It will be experienced through the Spirit of God.
When we hear the phrase 'weak in faith,' all kinds of different thoughts may run through our head, depending on past and current Bible teaching. Some of what may be assumed is that the weak in faith are lesser Christians or some sort of second-class believers. Some might mistakenly consider this as accusatory or insulting language from Paul.
In context, Paul was referencing those who feel the need to be more outward focused which could involve things like ceremonial requirements, avoiding certain foods, esteeming one day to be observed above other days, etc., whereas someone who has grown further into the freedom and grace found in Christ is potentially more focused on trusting in the blood of Jesus and the redemptive work He performed, once for all.
Paul exhorted them not to judge but to receive one another in the same way God shows us peace and patience.
The religious accusation of being "friends with the world" will mean many different things to different people ... but it is generally rooted in a law-based mindset. We've had such accusations hurled at us both personally and through the podcast. And we've been a part of that haughty hangout in the past. It's not a place of grace and love.
Those who somehow think they have graduated to a higher spiritual level through their works and behavior will pounce on others with their self-righteousness. They see themselves as a better doer and more dedicated or sanctified through what they consider to be works of righteousness while avoiding what they deem to be taboo by their religious standard or point of view. Ironically, such accusations lead to judging others ... the very thing the same passage tells the readers not to do.
While pointing the finger that being friends with the world makes you an enemy of God, it's worth noting that "God loves the world" so much that he gave His only begotten Son. Quoting Bible verses and using them as talking points apart from an understanding of the gospel of grace will lead people to inconsistency as they get tangled within the tittles without even realizing it.
Listeners have written to us to express their inner battle with being able to love themselves. The lifeless seeds plated by others left them feeling barren and unsure of themselves ... and lacking confidence in God's love for them. They often have to deal with well-meaning but judgmental types who will wag their finger at them for doing things they enjoy but may be considered taboo to those snared in their own religious bondage. They'll quote Bible verses as though they are 'demands' from God instead of exhortations from apostles who were attempting to exhort and encourage those to whom they were writing.
The victims wallow and wade in the murky swamp of guilt and condemnation, sometimes leading to more problems, including depression. It leaves them feeling distant from God, living in a place of fear and uncertainty. We may not have all the specific answers for overcoming these struggles that are unique to each person. But we do know God doesn't want this for any of His creation. Allowing Him to reveal His love to each heart will not only lift us to heavenly places, it will establish grace and self-esteem, assurance ... and empower us to love others - as well as ourselves - in the same way.
The old way of a useless law under the first covenant was centered on people working and striving at loving God with everything they had. 'Do it or else.' In a better covenant established by Jesus, it has never been about our effort at trying to love God but rather coming to realize God first loved us. Get this backwards ... and we'll keep missing the blessings God freely gives.
"In this is love, not that we have loved God but that he loved us and sent his Son to be the propitiation for our sins" (1 John 4:10).
It's unfortunate so many have wrestled with low self-esteem. There could be many reasons individuals experience this ... including misguided Bible teaching. God wants us to see the high value He has bestowed upon us as His creation. Jesus paid the ultimate price for us and although we don't hear it preached very often, He has crowned us with glory and honor.
Think about it! We are identified as royalty—children of the King. Jesus said the glory God gave to Him would be given to us by Him. It's awesome and humbling. Learning to love yourself is by beginning to realize God's unlimited and never-changing love for you.
